The Further and Fantastic Journey
A DestinyWorks Blog
What if we took care of each other?
There is this one old-school thing that Penny and I do somewhat religiously. Almost every night, we sit down together and watch the NBC Evening News with Lester Holt. Yeah, it’s just a skim of the day’s news but it’s mildly orienting and strangely comforting to have...
What if we blessed each other?
Wow…it’s been a while since I have written! I’ve got a pretty good excuse. For much of the month of March I was not well. Not until I had been suffering for a bunch of weeks, did we discover through a CT scan that I had a large kidney stone lodged in my body that...
Anchored: Am I not relevant anymore?
“If something cannot go on forever, it will stop.” Herbert Stein, economist That makes sense in a general “duh” sort of way. But what if that also includes your professional success? Your relevance will not go on forever. It will stop. Social scientist Albert Brooks...
Anchored: How can I get some friends?
Got friends? A few weeks ago I asked a set of questions that, if answered honestly, would give you an indication of the strength of your community…your tribe. Here are some of the questions I asked: Who could you call in the middle of the night to take you to the...
Anchored: Who is my tribe?
If you are feeling a little lost or unmoored these days, it is likely, in part, because you don’t know who your friends are. Who can I trust? Who is safe? Who believes in me? You’d never say that out loud…you don’t want to come off as needy but, let’s be honest,...
Anchored: What on earth do I believe?
“I stare off into space for a minute. ‘I just wish my life would go back to the way it was.’ ‘Why?’ ‘Because I was happy then. Things weren't perfect, but still, I knew where I fit. I knew where I was going.’ ‘And you don't feel that way anymore?’ ‘No. I feel kind...
Anchored: What is my internal compass?
I went down a rabbit hole on this one. I knew intuitively that identifying core values was one important way to get grounded again when you’re flailing in life, i.e. living in a state of anomie. But, wow, everybody has an opinion on this, and who knew how many core...
Anchored: What do I stand on?
“Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.” ― Abraham Lincoln Let’s shift from unmoored to anchored. For the past month I have been exploring the state of feeling unmoored, of discovering your foundations have eroded, of living with anomie. I...
Unmoored: When it feels like they’re out to get you.
I love a good conspiracy theory movie. Films like the Manchurian Candidate, the Da Vinci Code and The Matrix are cool escapist fare. But what if a conspiracy feels more like reality than fiction? Anomie does this to people. Last week I introduced the idea that today’s...
Unmoored. Why it feels like we’re adrift.
There is something hidden deep inside of me that, from time to time, causes me a good deal of distress. My symptoms are not unlike those of many…heartburn, digestive issues and pain. But unlike most, my struggles lie in a mysterious malfunction of my immune system....
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